Okay, I'm 14 and yes ive had sex but ive been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now and around my labium majora is red and itchy and im really curious as to why it is, i do hope that i dont have an std but when i whipe it really hurts and it burns there is cuts but ii think cs i just shaved and white stuff comes out alot it used to come out before i had anal sex with my bf too but not tht much if you can plz help me i had sex like a week 2 weeks ago last time but we had alotta times before...while nothing happened then i really do need to know whats going on and also doctors scare me and i dont want my mother finding out that im sexually active so i cant go to a doctors or they will tell her or contact her to tell her i'd rather tell her myself when im ready... please help me.