I was in a car accident in July. Ever since then, I pee in my pants about twice a week, I only poop about once a week, even though I take two stool softeners a day and when I have an orgasm, it s excruciatingly painful in my anus. I literally feel like my rectum is coming out. I have to have surgery to repair a torn muscle in my left hip, but the Orthopedic doctor I m seeing says my hip injury is not related to the above. What could be wrong?