Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Foreskin retraction is not that necessary for now. But for cleanliness and to have painless sexual act, retraction is considered good. A surgical procedure called circumcision can be performed to have full retraction. But before going into that, practice retracting the foreskin several times a day by using some oils like coconut oil. Naturally, on practicing, it should be done. If it is not done even after a months practice, consult a surgeon for circumcision. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.