I have pcos and since october have suffered a 4 month cycle. during this time had v large clots and floods. using 2 st at a time. When it eases get a pain near right kidney . v bad period pain very low constant pressure pelvis area. had a scan early jan showed a polyp and x thick linning and a not pcos cyst. saw gyn and wanted to to do hysteroscopy and d&c the depending on result fit a mirena. Tried to explain at the time did not want mirena as i have read up on side effects and did not want to risk because also had a bad reaction to the pill at 16 make me phyco and nearly had to be sedated. but the gyn not listen. my prefrence would be hysterectomy but said because i am over weight its formidable. not easy to exercise when in constant pain can even walk up steps with out excrutiating pain going shopping is a nightmare. Went for preop and passed all pre op tests then found out op was for hysteroscopy d&c and polyp removal and have mc fitted. I emailed gyn then 2 days b4 op had a call to say op cancelled. he not happy risking putting me under anesthetic if not going to have coil fitted. In the email I did mention something i could not get out when i saw him because he not listening ie my cervix extremely low some days only 3mm away from vagina opening. a week b4 i use to start my right foot would swell but as soon as i started swelling would go down. I asked if abalation was for me. The day of my what would have been op i received a letter saying i was extremly high risk ovarian and endrometrial cancer and because of being over weight the mirena was my only option. I know my weight is an issue but y because i stood my ground and said i dint want the mirena did he cancel my op. quite happy to put me under when was having that fitted at the same time but because i said no to the mirena was to risky. (mirena being put in while asleep due to no children.) I have 2 special children and do not want to risk going phyco on the mirena dont need to put on more weight. I also already have cysts on my ovaries that cause pain so dont need anymore plus have family history of cysts. Plus intercourse is painful at time without a coil and i have heard not suitable for someone has pain during intercourse anyway. plus do suffer depression quite often and a low sex drive. even without the side effects of the mirena Has anyone got any ideas on what is best for me or any ideas i can try to get my gyn to listen. does anyone think i should try the mirena if not y so i can tell my gyn thanks sorry for the rant